What
is Forced Marriage?
Forced marriage is the marriage of (often young) women to
men they do not know (often older than them), whom they have never
seen and with whom they do not want to be. Forced marriages differ
to "arranged marriages" as this entails a process of negotiation
and/or prior consultation between parents and their children. In
situations of forced marriage, coercion is used in the form of emotional
blackmail, physical constraints, violence, kidnapping and confinement.
Sometimes, women believe that they are returning to their family
country of origin for a "holiday" and are subsequently
married against their will. Forced marriages continue to exist even
if it is a lawful illegal practice. This is due to a number of reasons,
notably young womens fear of speaking out and/or her incapacity
to do so and also because this practice is deemed to be part of
"traditional cultural practices" into which external authorities
are considered an intrusion.
What
is "Honour Killings"?
Many women in different parts of the world live in fear
as they face death by shooting, burning or killing by other means
if they are deemed to have brought shame on the family. They are
killed for supposed illicit relationships, for marrying
men of their choice, for divorcing abusive husbands. The allegation
(without proof) is enough to bring dishonour on the family and
therefore, justifies the killing.
Every
year hundreds of women are known to die as a result of honour
killings. Many cases go unreported and almost all go unpunished.
What
is "Stoning to Death for presumed adultery"?
In some countries, stoning to death is instituted in law
as a means of punishing adultery. In Iran, for example, the penalty
for adultery consists in stoning of married offenders regardless
of their gender. However, the method involves burial up to the
waist for men and up to the neck for women. The law provides that
the person can manage to escape, s/he goes free. Since it is easier
for a man to escape, this discrimination becomes a matter of life
or death. The law further stipulates that stones should be "not
so large that the person dies after being hit with two of them,
nor so small as to be defined as pebbles, but must cause severe
injury."
The
above examples have some common features. Firstly, they are carried
out in the name of traditional cultural practices, which derive
their justification from customary laws for which redress through
judicial procedures are not always possible.
Further
information
BBC World Service:
www.bbc.co.uk/worldservice/people/highlights/marriage.shtml
Amnesty
International Report ASA33/18/99: "Honour Killings
of Girls and Women":www.amnesty.org/ailib/aipub/1999/ASA/33301899.htm
Stoning
to Death in Iran: Stoning Women to death in Iran:
www.iran-e-azad.org/stoning/women.html